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National Women History Maker – The Poetess – Phyllis Wheatley

March 21, 2014 By Elaine Gray

My first love of the written word is poetry and I thought it would be great to share information on one of the earliest women history maker – the poetess, Phyllis Wheatley.   Born in West Africa in 1753, sold into slavery at the age of 7 and transported to North America, Phyllis Wheatley became the second published African-American poet and the first published African-American woman before her death at the early age of 31.

Phyllis was named after the slave ship that brought her to Boston and took the last name of her progressive master and his wife, John and Susanna Wheatley.  These believers in education for their slaves started educating Phyllis and soon recognized her genius.    Giving Phyllis’ work to other slaves, they fostered her education and by the time she was twelve years old, she was reading the Greek and Latin classics.    Eventually, she started to write poetry on religious, classical themes and about famous people.   However, she seldom wrote about her life or slavery which is still a mystery.

Phyllis traveled to England with the son of her master and her work was held in high esteem in British society.   Here at home, she wrote a poem about George Washington, sent it to him and later met him.   Of course, she experienced racism and sexism as these evils were prevalent in that time.   Phyllis had to defend her authorship of her poetry and was examined by Boston dignitaries including John Hancock, the governor and lieutenant governor of Massachusetts.   Her genius prevailed and these same dignitaries signed an attestation to the authenticity of her work and her brilliance.   John Paul Jones called her the “African favorite of the Muses and Apollo”.    Phyllis was emancipated via her master’s will upon his death.

Eventually, Phyllis fell on difficult times.   She married after being emancipated and lost two infant children.   With the Revolutionary War waging, Phyllis also lost her financial backers and her husband was imprisoned for debts.   Phyllis was reduced to working as a domestic and caring for a sickly infant child.    She became ill and died.   Her last child died on the same day.

Here is one of her rare poems on slavery, written when she was sixteen years old.

 “On Being Brought from Africa to America”

 Twas mercy brought me from my Pagan land

Taught my benighted soul to understand

That there’s a God, that there’s a Saviour too:

Once I redemption neither sought nor knew.

Some view our sable race with scornful eye;

“Their colour is a diabolic die.”

Remember, Christians, Negros black as Cain,

May be refin’d, and join th’angelic train.

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Filed Under: Creative Arts, Cultural, Education, History, Women History Tagged With: George Washington, John Hancock, Phyllis Wheatley, poetry, Slavery, women history

Making History – Doing Her Own Thing – Brenda Johnson

March 20, 2014 By Elaine Gray

Today, I want you to meet another good friend in my inner circle, Brenda Johnson.  We met through a mutual friend and share a love of theatre as we attend plays together at our favorite place – The Ensemble Theatre.   We also attend Sunday Brunch with a group of other friends but lately it has been difficult to catch up with Brenda because she is SOOOOOOOOOO busy “doing her own thing”!

A few years ago, after retiring from her corporate job, Brenda combined those corporate skills with a love of travel and started her own business.   Now, she is always on a plane, a ship, a tour bus, or any mode of transportation that gets you to a new place.   If she has not already placed her feet on every continent, then she will probably soon mark that off her bucket list.

Here are her words about her journey to Explosive Travels:

Please describe your business.

Explosive Travels (http://www.explosivetravels.com) is a full service travel agency specializing in travel, tour and cruise vacations. We will custom design the vacation you desire at a price you can afford.

What motivated you to “do your own thing” and start your own business?

My daughter was the person who motivated me into starting my own agency after I retired from Southwestern Bell with over 30 years of service.  She felt since I was the one who always put my family and friend’s vacations and trips together this would be a perfect business for me.

Is your business a result of a formal education or self-taught genius?

My business is a combination of both self taught and formal training.

What is the one thing you enjoy about your type of business?

The one thing I enjoy the most about my business is when a client returns from their trip and tell me how I made it their most memorable vacation.  When I can turn someone’s vacation dream into a reality it gives me great pride and pleasure.

What would you say encouraging to other women who may have a business idea but are reluctant to pursue it?

I was reluctant at first to start my own business, but my daughter kept pushing me.  I will tell anyone if you are passionate about something, pursue it.  You will never know if you are a success unless you try.

Brenda is the travel coordinator for the first Sister-Girlfriend Meetup in St. Lucia.  I am looking forward to that retreat to relax and to have a great time with the other attendees.

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Filed Under: Travel, Women Entrepreneurs Tagged With: Cruise Specialist, Travel, Travel Agent, Vacation Tour Specialist, Women Entrepreneur

Making History – Informing the World – Kaye Crawford

March 19, 2014 By Elaine Gray

Anyone who knows me will tell you that if you stand within arm’s length of me for more than 5 minutes I will strike up a conversation with you.    This is how I met a most recent addition to my inner circle of wonderful friends – Kaye Crawford.    It was at the 7th Annual Austin African-American Book Festival in Austin, Texas last June 2013 where I met Kaye.   We were both volunteering at the book festival and shared a post as ushers for the attendees.    During the course of that event we discovered that we shared a common interest – history.  Kaye and I kept in touch via email, texts, and the occasional coffee/lunch when she was in Houston or I was in Austin during the past year.   It was sharing those times together when I discovered Kaye’s expertise in history and she informed me of her brilliant endeavor to “inform” others about the contributions of Black Catholics in the Catholic Church.

Kaye is definitely a woman making a mark on history and I am proud to know her and to have her share with us about her endeavors in that arena on my blog.   Here are my questions to her and her responses:

Please tell us about your curriculum platform.

 My curriculum enrichment program teaches the history of inspirational Black Catholics from the early centuries of the Church to present day events, namely the history and canonization processes of the four African-American candidates for sainthood (Mother Mary Lange, Mother Henriette Delille, Fr. Augustus Tolton and Pierre Toussaint). The program also focuses on Our Lady of Kibeho, the Vatican approved apparition of the Blessed Mother in Rwanda.   BlackCatholicHistory.com can be utilized in Social Studies, Religion and English/Language Arts classes.  The material is accessed through the website (http://www.blackcatholichistory.com)

What audience are you trying to reach?

 Catholic school students in grades PK – 8 and their families.  It is currently being used in schools in the Archdiocese of Galveston-Houston and the Diocese of Fort Worth.  It has been endorsed by the Archdiocese of New Orleans; I am hoping to have the program in New Orleans schools soon. There is interest in Austin, Texas and Baltimore, Maryland.

 What do you want to convey to them through your curriculum?

 I want them to know these beautiful examples of faith and courage.   I also want my program to be a celebration of the universality of the Catholic Church. For all of the students who use my program, it is education; for some of my students it is empowerment; for some it is enlightenment.

 What was the driving force to start your curriculum platform?

 With my degrees in History and in African and African-American Studies, this is material I have researched and studied for many years.  I was sharing it with my three children because this information is neglected in most standard curriculums.  While there are books for adults on this history, there is very little for children.  I felt the Lord was calling me to create this curriculum supplement and He has made my successes possible.

 If anyone wishes to reach me for questions, my email is info@blackcatholichistory.com.

I know that Kaye’s initial targeted audience are Catholic schools but I have encouraged her to plan to expand her curriculum to non-Catholic schools as I believe the information she presents in her curriculum would be of interest to all who truly love and embrace history.    Here are some pictures that Kaye has sent to share in the blog post.   The first one is a link to a PDF file of a beautiful watercolor painted by Kaye’s husband of the Blessed Mother, Our Lady of Kibeho, as she appeared to three girls in Rwanda and the second is a picture of Kaye and her work being blessed by her priests.

Our Lady of Kibeho

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Filed Under: History, Religion, Women History Tagged With: African-American History, Black Catholics, Catholic Church, catholics, History, Our Lady of Kibeho

Making History – Creative Coolness – Veronica Owens

March 18, 2014 By Elaine Gray

As I have stated in a previous blog post, I believe all of us have creativity in our souls and when some of us get full we start creating something.    Veronica Owens is one of those persons.    We met and bonded a few years ago through a mutual friend and my co-worker, Heidi Clark (another creative cool woman).   Now, we are early-Saturday-morning-falling-off-the-bike-riding-by-the lake sisters.    Veronica has an eye for photography and some of the pictures she has shared with us as she studies the craft are amazing.    She is a perfectionist with her work, which is probably the best quality in a photographer, and she is always practicing.   Recently, she had a “girlfriend gathering” and had us working out to YouTube videos before dinner and posing for pictures in her studio after dessert!     Here are her words about her creative soul:

Please describe your creative art form.

My creative form of art is photography

How/when did you decide to embrace your artistic gift?

Photography has been a passion of mine for many years.  I have always had a love for taking pictures.  Several years ago I became more interested in pursuing my hobby of photographing people, places and things.   

What are some of the positive, unexpected experiences you have encountered as a result of pursuing your artistic life?

A positive experience for me has been receiving comments from friends saying I have an eye for photographing people and things.  I have an inner peace when photographing and a true joy of satisfaction in seeing the delight from people that are very happy and sometimes over the moon with their photographs.

What is your favorite thing about your artistic life?

The freedom to capture a moment, place or person from my view point/perspective is one of my favorites.

Veronica assures us that one day she will take her work to the professional level.  I think she is ready today and I am not alone in that belief.   However, as a fellow artist, I know that letting go of your fears and putting your work out into the world can be a little scary.  But, my message to Veronica is that you have nothing to fear.   Go for it!

Here are some of her “practice” pictures:

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INTERVIEW – Stacy Overman Morrison – Author of “Comfort of Fences”

March 17, 2014 By Elaine Gray

In October 2013, I posted a book review of “Comfort of Fences” by Stacy Overman Morrison.    At that time, I asked blog followers and personal friends to read Stacy’s book for the opportunity to connect with Stacy about it.    This blog post is the culmination of that effort.    A hearty “Thanks!” goes out to the readers that participated with the submission of great questions.   Here are those questions with Stacy’s answers following:

Question (Allison M. Dickson)

What was your greatest challenge in writing this book?

Answer:

My greatest challenge was overcoming self-doubt. I questioned whether I had anything original to say, worthy of a reader’s time. I questioned whether putting my daughter in a mother’s day out program so that I could have time to write was being a good mother. I mean, I was not working full-time in order to be home with her then putting her in a program so that I could have time alone to write. I think all mothers struggle with that doubt and I know that struggle helped me flesh out Ruth and her parenting style.

Question (Laura Garza)

Do you think Ruth realized she was becoming her mother by trying to control Denise’s life?

Answer

I think Ruth knew that she was controlling and truly believed that she knew best for Denise. I don’t think she viewed it as the same as her mother. Ruth saw her mother’s controlling ways as conditional love. Ruth loved Denise unconditionally but with many safety checks! 

Question (Laura Garza)

Did Mrs. Yoakum see herself in Georgia?

Answer

Yes, Miss Betsy did see herself in Georgia and had a healthy respect for that spunk steeled with strength. That is why she bequeathed her boots to Georgia. Big shoes to fill metaphorically! 

Question (Laura Garza)

We all choose to be in a fence that is comfortable.  Why did Georgia wish for Denise to expand her fence while Ruth did not?

Answer

Great question, Laura. First, Georgia and Ruth were totally different kinds of mothers. Ruth mentions that when she says that Georgia is more a push them out of the nest mother and she herself is more a hold on forever kind of mother. Also, Ruth lived her life in constant fear and chose the path that seemed safest, for both Denise and for herself. Losing a husband at such a young age, going through a tumultuous marriage, and having a life-threatening birthing experience made her cautious and fearful. Plus, she was raised in fear, always feeling that God or the devil one would “get” her. Georgia helped Ruth through these situations, but Georgia did not have these same challenges. Georgia saw life as more an adventure and wanted Denise to experience that aspect of life. Ruth saw life more a struggle and wanted to protect Denise as much as possible.  

Question (Wanda Moore)

Was Denise gay or did her mom just assume this because she didn’t have any relationships with the opposite sex?  

Answer

Denise was homosexual, yet extremely religious and so she was conditioned to believe that was a sin. Denise chose not to admit her sexual orientation, nor to act on it. She alludes to this early on and throughout, even physically burying her sexuality in the backyard with her mother’s “medicinal” pot.   

Question (Wanda Moore)

What did Denise mean when she said she chose her mom? 

Answer:

She meant that if she wanted to go, she would have. Her mother did not force her to stay. Denise had no desire to be anywhere than where she was. Her happily ever after was her mother, the safety of their lives, the access to her spiritual practice, the comfort of home.

Question (Wanda Moore)

Did Denise decide she just couldn’t live without her mom in her daily life or just that she could not function on her own?

Answer

Denise had nothing that tied her to this world after her mother was gone. She loved Mary, Mother of Jesus, she loved her mother, she loved God and the idea of heaven. She was ready to go to the great “home.” I think society has so conditioned us to develop attachments to things of this world (houses, careers, possessions, etc.) that Denise’s choice seems unfathomable. We are supposed to want to hold on, to do whatever is necessary to stay here. Denise did not buy into this ideology and truly had nothing here that made her want to stay. In fact, she certainly wanted to go on before Georgia died, too. Her greatest fear was not dying, but being left behind. 

Question (Elaine Gray)

The one question I have is related to the women issues you brought up in your story.    Some of the issues you wrote about are somewhat “taboo” in today’s society…….teenage pregnancy, homosexuality, alcoholism among housewives, women living in poverty, women living in the “background” of their husband’s lives…….but this is what made the story realistic because we know women are experiencing these issues every day.    Did you at any point feel challenged to “ease up” on the issues you presented in your story?

Answer

Another excellent question, Elaine. And resoundingly, yes, I did feel the challenge to “ease up.” I knew that my mother would be reading this book, my daughters (someday), my friends, neighbors and strangers, but I also knew that if the world could sing the praises of such taboo subjects as were explored in 50 Shades of Grey, it was my DUTY to try to present a realistic depiction of women’s lives and struggles. I would be honored to call Ruth, Georgia, Denise, and Miss Betsy friends and would hope I have women like them in my corner when I need it!  

I want to thank Stacy for connecting with my blog readers/friends and sharing more insight into the story that kept all of us up late at night because it was SO very hard to find a stopping point!    For those of you that have not read it yet, I highly recommend that you add it to your GoodReads list and pick it up to enjoy on that Spring Break of upcoming Summer vacation.

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