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Love Story Starter #2

February 24, 2017 By Elaine Gray

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The line on her ring finger betrayed her and she feared he would leave. He smiled and slid onto the stool next to her.

Here is LOVE STORY STARTER #2

The line on her ring finger betrayed her, and she feared he would leave. He smiled and slid onto the stool next to her.  Delilah was a little surprised, but perhaps she should not have been.  It was the age of the 50% divorce rate, and the ring finger line was now just as normal as apple pie.  Everyone said being divorced was no longer a label to feel disgraced about so she was determined to find a way to not feel like such a failure.   Ready, willing, and liberated. Tonight may be the first attempt in that direction.

Delilah glanced at his left hand and noticed there was a ring. She was surprised again because she knew he had no reason to wear it anymore.   Even though this night was about her and the pursuit of her desires, she paused for a moment to consider if she had made a wise choice in traveling down memory lane.

“You came,”  Delilah said.  She made direct eye contact with him.

“Yeah, I had to,”  Wilt said.

He looked around the bar and motioned to the bartender. The bartender came over and Wilt ordered a scotch.   He turned to her again with that half-smile that had captured Delilah’s heart more than ten years ago.

“It’s been a while,”  Wilt said.

“Yes, a very long while,” Delilah said.

“So, how have you been?”  He asked.

“Better.  Now.   You?”

Delilah watched as Wilt glanced down at his ring finger before he answered.

“Life had been good up until last year.”   He said.

“I know,”  Delilah said.  “I heard about Beverly.”

Delilah watched as Wilt twisted his band around his ring finger.

“Yeah, it was rough,”   Wilt said.

“It didn’t have to be,”   Delilah said.   She reached over and covered his hands.

The bartender arrived with Wilt’s scotch.   Delilah picked up her Long Island Iced Tea and proposed a toast.

“Here’s to reunions,” she said.

They tapped their glasses together and sipped their own drinks. Wilt put his glass down on the bar and made direct eye contact with Delilah.

“So, tell me, Delilah, why am I here?”  Wilt asked.

Delilah picked up her drink again and drained it.   She motioned to the bartender to bring her another one.

“Simple.  I want you. Again.”  Delilah said.

She reached into her purse, grabbed her room key, and slid it next to his drink on the bar.

Wilt looked at the key and picked up his drink.

“Really?” he asked.  “After what happened between us?”

Delilah laughed as she took the drink the bartender offered.

“Because of what happened between us.”

“Yeah.” Wilt replied as he pushed the room key back towards Delilah.  “That was something.”

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Filed Under: Love Tagged With: Love, love affair, love relationships, Love Story, St. Valentine's Day, Valentine's Day

Is Ignorance Bliss? – The Aftermath of the Ashley Madison Hacking

August 24, 2015 By Elaine Gray

HiResThe hacking of the Ashley Madison website and posting of that information on the internet for all to access raised a question for many married persons – “Is my spouse cheating on me?”  When I read about persons searching this information trove I thought about that game we played as adolescents.   The game where we pulled the petals of a flower as we recited “He loves me……He loves me not” hoping that it would end on the right choice.    I know that persons are hoping that they do not find the name and information of their spouse among the Ashley Madison information.   However, if a person does find their spouse’s information, then they will have a hard decision to make about the relational aftermath.   Some will be prepared but I think most will not.   So, here is my advice.

If you don’t plan to GO, then you DON’T want to know.

Otherwise, you are in for an emotional rollercoaster ride where:

  • your trust and belief in your spouse will be destroyed
  • your self-confidence will be destroyed because most victimized spouses feel there is something lacking with them that drives their spouse to cheat
  • it is possible jealousy will drive you to unreasonable behavior

I have a friend who became aware that his wife was cheating on him.   He installed software on her computer that captured all of her chats with her lover.   He told me that he would read the chats every day and spend every night watching her as she slept next to him.   He could not sleep thinking about her daily betrayals.   I was afraid he would snap and hurt her.    Eventually, they divorced.

Also, recently in Houston, we had a woman who tracked her husband traveling in the car with his lover.    She chased him in her car trying to force him to pull over so she could confront them and ended up having a car accident in which she was killed.  Also, the man she hit was seriously injured.

Years ago, an older female co-worker shared her view on cheating to a group of us younger and inexperienced females in the office.   Her view was “you can’t miss what you can’t measure” and this was her way of justifying her behavior.   The statistics indicate that many share her view.   It is estimated that 30 – 60% of married persons in the U.S will cheat at some point in their marriage.

Sometimes we excuse this behavior in men by equating their behavior to a male dog’s instinctive attraction to a female dog in heat.   However, with a woman it is different as she is held totally accountable for her behavior and labeled disreputably for her actions.     Clearly, this is a double standard.

Whether you are a male or female, we all should accept that to cheat is a personal choice.   No one can “take” your spouse from you.

I know it is tempting to peruse through the Ashley Madison’s information but before you do make a plan.    Determine your motivation and how you plan to handle the aftermath.   Also, if you don’t find your spouse’s name, do you consider that the answer to the implied question?

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What are your thoughts about the hacking of the Ashley Madison websites and all the latest revelations in the news/social media?

 

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