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Making History – Creative Coolness – Judy Brooks

March 24, 2014 By Elaine Gray

Sometimes it is just amazing how and where creativity will show up.   With this next creative cool woman in my inner circle, Judy Brooks, I watched it appear and grow through our long and close friendship.    Now, I can’t tell you how long we’ve known each other because then you would guess our ages but suffice it to say we both have experienced several “evolutions of womanhood” since we first met in our workplace and were young single Moms.

Creativity comes natural to Judy. She does fabulous event planning for her personal parties, beautiful floral arrangements and her home is transformed to everything Christmas during the holidays with her elaborate village displays with pieces she has collected over the years.     Today, I want to showcase her creativity with food – in particular cakes, cupcakes, and cookies.    Judy can take an idea and create an edible, custom decorating theme.    Here are her words about her creativity:

Describe your creative art form.

I enjoy creating decorative baked goods, i.e., cakes, cupcakes and cookies.  My preference is the decorative cookies with cupcakes a close second.

 How/when did you decide to embrace your artistic gift?

I left full-time employment over 10 years ago.   I had worked since I was 18 years old, so the thought of not having a daily routine or schedule was a bit scary.  I have always loved design and decorating, and I became interested in the baking side of it.  So, the next natural step was to begin baking and decorating classes before I left my job.  In fact, my first test subjects were the lab staff that I managed.

Once I took the first class I was hooked.  Before long I had advanced to creating flowers, using fondant, creating tiered cakes, and perfecting the baked good itself.  It was fun, and at the time thought it would be a fun way to generate income.

 Positive/negative unexpected experiences encountered as a result of pursuing an artistic life.

There is an upside to cake or bakery art as well as a downside.  I have learned that in running your own business you will work much longer and harder than you will work for an employer.  The payoff is the satisfaction of doing what you are passionate about.  Output and marketing are key in the bakery business.

I might say that the downside of this same business is that it will consume your entire life, especially in the beginning.  What once took several days to do, now can be done in a matter of hours with proper planning.  Weekends are peak time for weddings, parties, etc. and deliveries will almost always include setup as well.    This is not necessarily a bad thing; it just depends on what success looks like from your perspective. 

For me, success is not in the income generated,  but in producing what my clientele want, while remaining flexible enough to pursue other interests.  Sharing the art of cookie decorating, baking a themed cake for a party or sending a cookie bouquet is a great way to go.  I love creating and sharing my art with others, especially children.  We sometimes host kids parties here at the ranch and love to incorporate a horse-themed cookie decorating component.  The kids can take their finished product with them to remember the event.  Cookie projects are very popular and a lot of fun for kids parties.  It is a great way to combine this art form with my love of horses.

  Favorite thing about the artistic life.

Decorating baked goods is an ever evolving art form.  You are only limited by your imagination.  From the cookie bouquet to the cupcake tree or the tiered cake, I am always excited about the finished product.  The icing on the cake is that the client is even more excited about it.

Here are some pictures of Judy’s creative delectable delights:

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Filed Under: Creative Arts, Food Tagged With: Cakes, Cookies, Creative Food, Decorative Baked Goods

National Women History Maker – The Poetess – Phyllis Wheatley

March 21, 2014 By Elaine Gray

My first love of the written word is poetry and I thought it would be great to share information on one of the earliest women history maker – the poetess, Phyllis Wheatley.   Born in West Africa in 1753, sold into slavery at the age of 7 and transported to North America, Phyllis Wheatley became the second published African-American poet and the first published African-American woman before her death at the early age of 31.

Phyllis was named after the slave ship that brought her to Boston and took the last name of her progressive master and his wife, John and Susanna Wheatley.  These believers in education for their slaves started educating Phyllis and soon recognized her genius.    Giving Phyllis’ work to other slaves, they fostered her education and by the time she was twelve years old, she was reading the Greek and Latin classics.    Eventually, she started to write poetry on religious, classical themes and about famous people.   However, she seldom wrote about her life or slavery which is still a mystery.

Phyllis traveled to England with the son of her master and her work was held in high esteem in British society.   Here at home, she wrote a poem about George Washington, sent it to him and later met him.   Of course, she experienced racism and sexism as these evils were prevalent in that time.   Phyllis had to defend her authorship of her poetry and was examined by Boston dignitaries including John Hancock, the governor and lieutenant governor of Massachusetts.   Her genius prevailed and these same dignitaries signed an attestation to the authenticity of her work and her brilliance.   John Paul Jones called her the “African favorite of the Muses and Apollo”.    Phyllis was emancipated via her master’s will upon his death.

Eventually, Phyllis fell on difficult times.   She married after being emancipated and lost two infant children.   With the Revolutionary War waging, Phyllis also lost her financial backers and her husband was imprisoned for debts.   Phyllis was reduced to working as a domestic and caring for a sickly infant child.    She became ill and died.   Her last child died on the same day.

Here is one of her rare poems on slavery, written when she was sixteen years old.

 “On Being Brought from Africa to America”

 Twas mercy brought me from my Pagan land

Taught my benighted soul to understand

That there’s a God, that there’s a Saviour too:

Once I redemption neither sought nor knew.

Some view our sable race with scornful eye;

“Their colour is a diabolic die.”

Remember, Christians, Negros black as Cain,

May be refin’d, and join th’angelic train.

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Filed Under: Creative Arts, Cultural, Education, History, Women History Tagged With: George Washington, John Hancock, Phyllis Wheatley, poetry, Slavery, women history

Making History – Doing Her Own Thing – Brenda Johnson

March 20, 2014 By Elaine Gray

Today, I want you to meet another good friend in my inner circle, Brenda Johnson.  We met through a mutual friend and share a love of theatre as we attend plays together at our favorite place – The Ensemble Theatre.   We also attend Sunday Brunch with a group of other friends but lately it has been difficult to catch up with Brenda because she is SOOOOOOOOOO busy “doing her own thing”!

A few years ago, after retiring from her corporate job, Brenda combined those corporate skills with a love of travel and started her own business.   Now, she is always on a plane, a ship, a tour bus, or any mode of transportation that gets you to a new place.   If she has not already placed her feet on every continent, then she will probably soon mark that off her bucket list.

Here are her words about her journey to Explosive Travels:

Please describe your business.

Explosive Travels (http://www.explosivetravels.com) is a full service travel agency specializing in travel, tour and cruise vacations. We will custom design the vacation you desire at a price you can afford.

What motivated you to “do your own thing” and start your own business?

My daughter was the person who motivated me into starting my own agency after I retired from Southwestern Bell with over 30 years of service.  She felt since I was the one who always put my family and friend’s vacations and trips together this would be a perfect business for me.

Is your business a result of a formal education or self-taught genius?

My business is a combination of both self taught and formal training.

What is the one thing you enjoy about your type of business?

The one thing I enjoy the most about my business is when a client returns from their trip and tell me how I made it their most memorable vacation.  When I can turn someone’s vacation dream into a reality it gives me great pride and pleasure.

What would you say encouraging to other women who may have a business idea but are reluctant to pursue it?

I was reluctant at first to start my own business, but my daughter kept pushing me.  I will tell anyone if you are passionate about something, pursue it.  You will never know if you are a success unless you try.

Brenda is the travel coordinator for the first Sister-Girlfriend Meetup in St. Lucia.  I am looking forward to that retreat to relax and to have a great time with the other attendees.

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Filed Under: Travel, Women Entrepreneurs Tagged With: Cruise Specialist, Travel, Travel Agent, Vacation Tour Specialist, Women Entrepreneur

Making History – Informing the World – Kaye Crawford

March 19, 2014 By Elaine Gray

Anyone who knows me will tell you that if you stand within arm’s length of me for more than 5 minutes I will strike up a conversation with you.    This is how I met a most recent addition to my inner circle of wonderful friends – Kaye Crawford.    It was at the 7th Annual Austin African-American Book Festival in Austin, Texas last June 2013 where I met Kaye.   We were both volunteering at the book festival and shared a post as ushers for the attendees.    During the course of that event we discovered that we shared a common interest – history.  Kaye and I kept in touch via email, texts, and the occasional coffee/lunch when she was in Houston or I was in Austin during the past year.   It was sharing those times together when I discovered Kaye’s expertise in history and she informed me of her brilliant endeavor to “inform” others about the contributions of Black Catholics in the Catholic Church.

Kaye is definitely a woman making a mark on history and I am proud to know her and to have her share with us about her endeavors in that arena on my blog.   Here are my questions to her and her responses:

Please tell us about your curriculum platform.

 My curriculum enrichment program teaches the history of inspirational Black Catholics from the early centuries of the Church to present day events, namely the history and canonization processes of the four African-American candidates for sainthood (Mother Mary Lange, Mother Henriette Delille, Fr. Augustus Tolton and Pierre Toussaint). The program also focuses on Our Lady of Kibeho, the Vatican approved apparition of the Blessed Mother in Rwanda.   BlackCatholicHistory.com can be utilized in Social Studies, Religion and English/Language Arts classes.  The material is accessed through the website (http://www.blackcatholichistory.com)

What audience are you trying to reach?

 Catholic school students in grades PK – 8 and their families.  It is currently being used in schools in the Archdiocese of Galveston-Houston and the Diocese of Fort Worth.  It has been endorsed by the Archdiocese of New Orleans; I am hoping to have the program in New Orleans schools soon. There is interest in Austin, Texas and Baltimore, Maryland.

 What do you want to convey to them through your curriculum?

 I want them to know these beautiful examples of faith and courage.   I also want my program to be a celebration of the universality of the Catholic Church. For all of the students who use my program, it is education; for some of my students it is empowerment; for some it is enlightenment.

 What was the driving force to start your curriculum platform?

 With my degrees in History and in African and African-American Studies, this is material I have researched and studied for many years.  I was sharing it with my three children because this information is neglected in most standard curriculums.  While there are books for adults on this history, there is very little for children.  I felt the Lord was calling me to create this curriculum supplement and He has made my successes possible.

 If anyone wishes to reach me for questions, my email is info@blackcatholichistory.com.

I know that Kaye’s initial targeted audience are Catholic schools but I have encouraged her to plan to expand her curriculum to non-Catholic schools as I believe the information she presents in her curriculum would be of interest to all who truly love and embrace history.    Here are some pictures that Kaye has sent to share in the blog post.   The first one is a link to a PDF file of a beautiful watercolor painted by Kaye’s husband of the Blessed Mother, Our Lady of Kibeho, as she appeared to three girls in Rwanda and the second is a picture of Kaye and her work being blessed by her priests.

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Filed Under: History, Religion, Women History Tagged With: African-American History, Black Catholics, Catholic Church, catholics, History, Our Lady of Kibeho

Making History – Creative Coolness – Veronica Owens

March 18, 2014 By Elaine Gray

As I have stated in a previous blog post, I believe all of us have creativity in our souls and when some of us get full we start creating something.    Veronica Owens is one of those persons.    We met and bonded a few years ago through a mutual friend and my co-worker, Heidi Clark (another creative cool woman).   Now, we are early-Saturday-morning-falling-off-the-bike-riding-by-the lake sisters.    Veronica has an eye for photography and some of the pictures she has shared with us as she studies the craft are amazing.    She is a perfectionist with her work, which is probably the best quality in a photographer, and she is always practicing.   Recently, she had a “girlfriend gathering” and had us working out to YouTube videos before dinner and posing for pictures in her studio after dessert!     Here are her words about her creative soul:

Please describe your creative art form.

My creative form of art is photography

How/when did you decide to embrace your artistic gift?

Photography has been a passion of mine for many years.  I have always had a love for taking pictures.  Several years ago I became more interested in pursuing my hobby of photographing people, places and things.   

What are some of the positive, unexpected experiences you have encountered as a result of pursuing your artistic life?

A positive experience for me has been receiving comments from friends saying I have an eye for photographing people and things.  I have an inner peace when photographing and a true joy of satisfaction in seeing the delight from people that are very happy and sometimes over the moon with their photographs.

What is your favorite thing about your artistic life?

The freedom to capture a moment, place or person from my view point/perspective is one of my favorites.

Veronica assures us that one day she will take her work to the professional level.  I think she is ready today and I am not alone in that belief.   However, as a fellow artist, I know that letting go of your fears and putting your work out into the world can be a little scary.  But, my message to Veronica is that you have nothing to fear.   Go for it!

Here are some of her “practice” pictures:

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