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Girlfriend Gathering Movie Review – Selma

January 12, 2015 By Elaine Gray

Women at the Movies

It was a dismal cold rainy day in Houston on Sunday morning but the girlfriends and I decided to bundle up to go see the movie Selma.   In our opinion, rain only stops a picnic and nothing was going to prevent us from seeing Selma on its opening weekend.  We wanted to be supportive for the number crunching that goes on for society’s determination of a successful movie but we felt the movie was already a success because it was providing a glimpse into our country’s historical past.

The movie was as moving as I expected giving me proud and tearful moments.   I was a kid in the sixties but I remember the drama and trauma of the Civil Rights Movement.   I remember my parents and extended family discussing Alabama’s governor – George Wallace – during that period and his name was synonymous with hate and evil in our household.  So, to see this depiction of the events surrounding the march from Selma to Montgomery in 1965 was a revisit but this time from my adult point of view and with my adult emotions.

Overall, the movie was an enlightening experience as it gave us an inside view of how the diverse African-American activists of the day came together under the courageous leadership of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. to show our country and the world the plight of African-American citizens seeking their right to vote.  I especially was proud that the movie emphasized the roles that strong women activists played in that particular march and in the entire Civil Right Movement.   History has shown us that the events surrounding this march were pivotal in President Lyndon B. Johnson comprising and signing the Voting Rights Act of 1965 a few months later.

All of the portrayals of the actors were superb – David Oyelowo (Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.), Oprah Winfrey (Annie Lee Cooper), Carmen Ejogo (Coretta Scott King), Tim Roth (Governor George Wallace), and Tom Wilkinson (President Lyndon B. Johnson).   I appreciate their dedication to their roles because it was evident in the manner in which they brought their characters to life for the audience and the way it evoked emotions from us all.

I know there is some criticism about this movie as there are usually around movies and books that shed a painful light on the true history of our country.    I wish those that criticize these efforts will transfer their concerns to the whitewash that exists in the unreliable history books in our schools.    Unless you are doing a self-study of American history, sometimes these types of movies are the only way to acquire some historical truths – which is really shameful.

This movie is highly recommended by the girlfriends and we suggest that you gather up some young people so they can learn another perspective of a moment that changed our society.

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Filed Under: Movie Reviews Tagged With: Annie Lee Cooper, Civil Right Movement, David Oyelowo, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., Governor George Wallace, Oprah Winfrey, President Lyndon B. Johnson, Selma, Voting Rights Act of 1965

H-Town Happenings – Hanging Out with Oprah and Her Trailblazers!

October 20, 2014 By Elaine Gray

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It was fantastic news when I learned months ago that my hometown – Houston – was on Oprah’s The Life You Want Tour.    There was only one thing for me to do – buy a ticket and mark the dates.    So this past weekend Oprah and her Trailblazers (Deepak Chopra, Rob Bell, Elizabeth Gilbert and Iyanla Vanzant) graced our presence here in the Toyota Center.   We gave Oprah a hearty Texas-sized welcome and showed her there are many here who really love her!

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The positive energy was contagious among the attendees as we hung out in O-Town and inside the Toyota Center jamming with DJKISS as she played funky celebration music for us (http://www.kissthedeejay.com).   Needless to say, there was a huge female presence at the tour but, surprisingly, there were many brave and secure men in attendance, too.   We, attendees, wore these wonderful bracelets that lit up in various colors at certain points during the event.   This small item united all of us and made us one with a directed focus in the Toyota Center.   It was simple yet amazing.

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When Oprah appeared on the stage in the Toyota Center it was thrilling.   Just the fact that she created this tour is inspirational because it demonstrates her genuine commitment to enlightening and inspiring the world community.    Oprah shared with us her thoughts and feelings about her life journey.   She encouraged us to open ourselves to the unlimited possibilities of the universe and to have faith that God will be with us and for us on our journeys.

As a person who learned Transcendental Meditation (http://www.tm.org) in 1995 and paid $1000 to learn, Deepak Chopra delivered a fabulous life-changing gift to every attendee when he taught and led a TM session.    He imparted his wisdom to us on the importance of the mind-body relationship and it’s relation to our spiritual well being.   This was a rejuvenation moment for me because I have not practiced TM for many years now and just started again last week.   Also, I have also neglected my spiritual life even though I believe the quote from Pierre Teilhard de Chardin – “We are not human beings having a spiritual experience; we are spiritual beings having a human experience.”   So Deepak Chopra’s directions were of special interest to me.

Rob Bell gave us guidance on finding purpose, finding joy in our daily lives and reconnecting with God.

Elizabeth Gilbert challenged us to step out of the lives others have built for us and to set off on our own quest.   She helped me to realize that all of those times I packed up and traveled away from my daily life were mini-quests.   I knew that at a gut-level and secretly felt guilty about it but now I can fully embrace it.

Iyanla Vanzant directed us on the art of forgiveness and the importance it has on acceptance and moving forward in our lives.

We, the attendees, worked through exercises in the workbook that was provided to help us identify what we have been called to do.   We were guided by Oprah as we awakened to the life we want, viewed and rated our lives today, discarded negative language and chose a new language in our lives, and created a specific NEW vision for our lives to declare into the universe.   It was INCREDIBLE as Oprah patiently guided us through these workbook exercises.    She even gave us homework to send her our new vision before Sunday, 10/19/14, 5pm CDT and I tweeted mine on Saturday night.   She told us she enjoys reading them.   It was challenging to describe it in 140 characters but I did it.

Near the end of the event, there was a session where Oprah selected a few of the attendee questions to be answered by the Trailblazers.   The tour ended with Oprah encouraging us and giving us permission to have a limitless vision for ourselves; to open ourselves to God’s purpose and be obedient.  She told us to get clear about what we want and to have faith that it will happen.

I have wrapped myself with all of the positive energy and guidance from Oprah’s The Life You Want Tour Weekend to implement in my life.  One of the quotes I learned there that resonates with me is one by Paulo Coelho, “And, when you want something all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.”   Today, I wrote a full page document on the specifics of the new vision for my life and I have declared that vision to the universe.   I know I have work to do.  I know the work will be challenging.   I know there will be some “letting go”.    And, because of this weekend, I know that now I am ready.

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QUESTION(S):

Do you want a new limitless vision for your life?

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Filed Under: Self-Evaluation Tagged With: Deepak Chopra, DJKISS, Elizabeth Gilbert, Houston, Iyanla Vanzant, Oprah Winfrey, Oprah's The Life You Want Tour, Rob Bell, The Life You Want Tour, Toyota Center, Transcendental Meditation

Saluting SisterGirlfriends

October 7, 2013 By Elaine Gray

Women on the BeachThere is a myth that women cannot truly be friends because they are always competing with one another for male attention.   I disagree.   I believe that women can have non-competitive friendships that are separate and apart from their relationships with their spouses or lovers.   One such friendship that I admire is the friendship between Oprah Winfrey and Gayle King.

In my opinion, your relational life is not complete unless you have a SisterGirlfriend.   This woman can be your relative or a friend you would have chosen to be your sister, if given the choice.

What is her role in your life?

She is your sounding board, your cheerleader, your “voice of wisdom” and your helper in “keeping it real” during those times when you get a little delusional.

She was probably there with you through all of the Mr. Right Nows until you found Mr. Right and stood by you when he either walked out the door or was carried out of the door.

She listened to your frustrations through those “hard-headed” kid days and shared your pride when they finally grew up.

She celebrated with you when you got that degree, certification, opened that business or pursued your dream.

She cried with you when you had to say those final goodbyes to loved ones.

She’s your walking- off-the-pounds partner, let’s-go-to-brunch buddy, share-my-laughter sister, getting-our-groove-back girlfriend.

She is the first person you want to share a funny story with and the last friend you want to see disappointed.

You are the same for her.

 

QUESTION(S):

Do you believe that women can have non-competitive friendships?    If not, please explain.

Do you have a sister-girlfriend friendship?   If so, can you please share some history about your friendship?

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Filed Under: Friendship, Girl's Night Out Tagged With: BFF, female lifestyle, Friendship, Gayle King., girlfriend, girlfriends, Girls Night Out, Oprah Winfrey, women lifestyle

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